I've been doing a lot of thinking lately about the priorities in my life. The conclusions I've reached are pretty simple, on the surface, but scratch a little, and the hard truth about matching our intentions with our actions become apparent.
At the end of March, a fellow Suzuki violin teacher and I organized a workshop for our two studios of students. This is an annual tradition, one we both look forward to, since it not only inspires and recharges our students, but our own teaching as well. One of our guest teachers is a woman from Quebec City. She lives and teaches and raises her two young daughters there. She and I went to school together, and took Suzuki Pedagogy courses together in grad school. From chatting with her during the week-end, some things became clear to me about what is important in our relatively short time on Earth. This woman has a 3-year waiting list for students, she also teaches her own two daughters violin, something I swore I'd never do... but wait... the day after her departure, I started teaching my 2-year old. We've practiced every day for a month now -- no exceptions -- no matter how tired, run-down or impatient I felt.
Back to my epiphany. I decided to make a list of what is really, REALLY important to me. Here it is:
Music (making music, teaching music and finding happiness, employment and fulfillment through music)
Exercise
Healthy food
Absent from this list? TV, facebook, doing housework. Well, it's not like I won't ever watch TV, check in with fb or do laundry, but, if I don't keep what's REALLY important at the top of the list, the other, less fulfilling items will creep in and take over my life.
Hence, the violin lessons began with my young daughter, the morning after my colleague hit the road for la Belle Province. I've also made a commitment to be more involved with the musical groups I play with. I had been feeling overwhelmed with the job of being a mother, and had been somewhat neglecting my involvement with these two groups. While my daughter will inevitably come first most of the time, I can also make the time not just to practice, but to be truly involved. Also, I've been selecting pieces to practice on both my modern and Baroque violins. Keeping up my chops between concerts feels good, sets a good example for my daughter, and is fun! (Now, if I could only practice during nap time, without waking her!)
Showing posts with label classical music. Show all posts
Showing posts with label classical music. Show all posts
Monday, April 30, 2012
Tuesday, February 21, 2012
Playing music for the youngest set
I regularly take my 2-year old daughter to a certain playgroup. I have become close with some of the other moms and my daughter has made some great friends. It came to the attention of one of the facilitators that I am a professional violinist, and today's demonstration/performance was the result of her asking me to bring in my violin to play for the children.
The age range of the children at today's playgroup was 6 months (I think) to 5 years. There was a sizable number of 1 and 2-year-olds. In total, I estimate there were about a dozen children and 10 adults: mostly mothers and some grandmothers as well as the facilitator.
I was to play at "circle time" the 15-minute period at the end of playgroup when we sit in a circle and sing songs and sometimes hear a story. Just before circle time began, I tuned my violin. The silence that ensued was instant and intense. Parents holding infants appeared stunned as their tiny charges STARED, completely rapt, while I unceremoniously tuned my four strings. When I stopped, the facilitator broke the spell by singing the circle-time-is-starting song.
I am very comfortable talking to young children, and have a lot of experience describing what I do to young audiences. I showed the kids how I make sounds with my bow and how I love to make special effects on my violin. "But," I told them, "what I love most of all, is playing songs with my violin." I played them songs I suspected they knew, and took some requests. Some sang along, many just continued to stare. I finished with a very short piece by J.S. Bach that is standard repertoire for very young violinists: I teach it to all my students. I then told the children that they could each try my violin because I'd brought along a tiny bow. I told them that I'd move around the circle, but, I was quickly MOBBED (albeit in a gentle and even reverent way) by preschoolers and toddlers. They seemed drawn like magnets to my violin. Only one child was too shy. I reassured his grandmother that observing was just fine and that there was absolutely NO pressure to try the violin and bow. Interestingly, my own daughter showed no interest in trying my violin. I found this funny because she has frequently tried to play it at home. But, she is a very social creature, and was happily snuggled in the lap of one of the other mothers.
So, that was the play-by-play. Now, here are my only-somewhat-well-formed thoughts.
It is clear to me, and it has been for decades, that children of all ages love to listen to and want to make music. I've never heard a very young child respond negatively to classical music. Unless they are taught that classical music is uncool, boring, elitist, snobby, lame, difficult, intellectual and hence not populist, un-hip -- they will love it. And, teaching hatred for classical music doesn't have to be overt or even intentional. Where does this aversion to classical music come from? Certainly not from any children I've ever encountered. When I spoke with some of the parents after the performance, they expressed real shock at how attentive their children were. Now, don't get me wrong, there was a fair bit of noise while I played, but for the most part, the kiddies were really attentive, and parents were not scolding them, they were just being attentive too. (Ah -- a topic for another post, perhaps?) Why then, don't more parents play recordings classical music for their children at home? And, why is it disappearing from the airwaves? Is it because most of today's adults never heard any classical music at school, or when they did, it was in stuffy, grim, SILENT environments, where teachers glared at you if you breathed too heavily? Having performed often in schools, I can tell you that teachers still glare at students, and that classical performances are made out to be precious, delicate, archaic museum pieces -- weird relics of a distant past, akin to stuffed dodos. I even have an extended family member who repeatedly told me how weird I was as a child and teen to have studied classical music. REALLY? This is what you say to someone who is not only developing an excellent work ethic, but an appreciation for something other than the fast-food-style pop music that is shoved down our consumer-throats every time we venture into a mall or store? OK, I'm starting to rant. (But, isn't that what a blog is for?)
A message to all the adults out there: your children love classical music. They have no prejudices, you do. So, give them the chance to experience something deeper than Bieber. (How about Biber?) They will love classical music not because it's popular, but because it moves them. I've stared into the eyes of a toddler, and I've seen the truth.
I'll be back.
The age range of the children at today's playgroup was 6 months (I think) to 5 years. There was a sizable number of 1 and 2-year-olds. In total, I estimate there were about a dozen children and 10 adults: mostly mothers and some grandmothers as well as the facilitator.
I was to play at "circle time" the 15-minute period at the end of playgroup when we sit in a circle and sing songs and sometimes hear a story. Just before circle time began, I tuned my violin. The silence that ensued was instant and intense. Parents holding infants appeared stunned as their tiny charges STARED, completely rapt, while I unceremoniously tuned my four strings. When I stopped, the facilitator broke the spell by singing the circle-time-is-starting song.
I am very comfortable talking to young children, and have a lot of experience describing what I do to young audiences. I showed the kids how I make sounds with my bow and how I love to make special effects on my violin. "But," I told them, "what I love most of all, is playing songs with my violin." I played them songs I suspected they knew, and took some requests. Some sang along, many just continued to stare. I finished with a very short piece by J.S. Bach that is standard repertoire for very young violinists: I teach it to all my students. I then told the children that they could each try my violin because I'd brought along a tiny bow. I told them that I'd move around the circle, but, I was quickly MOBBED (albeit in a gentle and even reverent way) by preschoolers and toddlers. They seemed drawn like magnets to my violin. Only one child was too shy. I reassured his grandmother that observing was just fine and that there was absolutely NO pressure to try the violin and bow. Interestingly, my own daughter showed no interest in trying my violin. I found this funny because she has frequently tried to play it at home. But, she is a very social creature, and was happily snuggled in the lap of one of the other mothers.
So, that was the play-by-play. Now, here are my only-somewhat-well-formed thoughts.
It is clear to me, and it has been for decades, that children of all ages love to listen to and want to make music. I've never heard a very young child respond negatively to classical music. Unless they are taught that classical music is uncool, boring, elitist, snobby, lame, difficult, intellectual and hence not populist, un-hip -- they will love it. And, teaching hatred for classical music doesn't have to be overt or even intentional. Where does this aversion to classical music come from? Certainly not from any children I've ever encountered. When I spoke with some of the parents after the performance, they expressed real shock at how attentive their children were. Now, don't get me wrong, there was a fair bit of noise while I played, but for the most part, the kiddies were really attentive, and parents were not scolding them, they were just being attentive too. (Ah -- a topic for another post, perhaps?) Why then, don't more parents play recordings classical music for their children at home? And, why is it disappearing from the airwaves? Is it because most of today's adults never heard any classical music at school, or when they did, it was in stuffy, grim, SILENT environments, where teachers glared at you if you breathed too heavily? Having performed often in schools, I can tell you that teachers still glare at students, and that classical performances are made out to be precious, delicate, archaic museum pieces -- weird relics of a distant past, akin to stuffed dodos. I even have an extended family member who repeatedly told me how weird I was as a child and teen to have studied classical music. REALLY? This is what you say to someone who is not only developing an excellent work ethic, but an appreciation for something other than the fast-food-style pop music that is shoved down our consumer-throats every time we venture into a mall or store? OK, I'm starting to rant. (But, isn't that what a blog is for?)
A message to all the adults out there: your children love classical music. They have no prejudices, you do. So, give them the chance to experience something deeper than Bieber. (How about Biber?) They will love classical music not because it's popular, but because it moves them. I've stared into the eyes of a toddler, and I've seen the truth.
I'll be back.
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